Human bieng is a supreme creation of God. He who  lives happily in big houses with all the facilities can we call him just a pole or a pillar?  We should always remember Allah who has given us everything in this world, a husband who toils from dawn to dusk should be given a cheerful and his neeeds fulfilled by his wife, childrens should be nourished and taken care in the best possible manner and attribute of God fearness should be inculcated in them, parents should be taken care as instructed by Quran and Sunnah, cousins rights should be taken care off, if such attributes are missing in our family than it wouldn’t be an happy family this were the words spoken by Mrs. Ammatur-Razzak who is the organizer of JIH Womens wing, who spoke on the topic  “how to reform our family”  in a  programme organized by womens wing of Jamaat-e-Islami Hind Udupi, at board high school udupi.

The relationship between husband and wife is the best relation in the household. If they don’t have proper understanding than it even effects their childrens. According to Holy Quran you are each others clothes  or dress. As the dress protects from immodesty, its your duty to protect each other from  it. If an wife angry with her husband turns to sleep with her back towards her husband for such a wife the angels curse them till the morning. Thats why a wife should be cheerful and help her husband out in all the times irrespective of happier or sad times. By such an attitude a husband gets very happy with his wife. Such a wife is eligible to enter the paradise. Childrens nourishment, and proper training plays a key role  in awareness of the the society was said by her.

A woman should live as an obedient servant of God. Attributes such as truth, patience, god fearness, spending in the way of Allah should be present in an woman. We are asset to our parents, childrens, brothers, and all the relatives of our husband. We should try not to violate their rights was said by the President of Girls Islamic Organization, Madeeha Afshan on the topic “ideal women”.

Women should stay away from obscene or immoral field and should have more understanding on family and social matters. The companions of Prophet(sahabi’s) and their mother’s should be our role model. Women is as important as eye to an human, In that sense a woman should be mature enough to accept the responsibilities of the family was said by Shahnaz M. The editor of Anupama Monthly Magazine who was here to deliver a talk on the topic “life of women sahabi- a model life”.

In order for  a women to be independent she should be educated. By this she gets a scientific thinking that helps her to safeguard against all adversities was said by one of the guest namely Jyothi Guru Prasad.

The banning of female foeticide  has given a new life to a woman. When she reaches maturity she has been given the right to choose her husband. By the saying that heaven lies beneath the mothers feet woman’s standard has been raised. These  are all the high standards given to an woman was said by Amaatur-Razzak in her presedenial talk.

Sameena Shukur, district organizer of JIH womens wing welcomed the gatheringand spoke few inaugural words. Darse-Quran was given by Nafeesa Fathima.  Humaira Karkala and Shahnaz Kaup conducted the programme. Farhat Dawood and Shahila Haneef translated the respctive sppeches in Kannada.  A play was presented on the topic “female foeticide”  . H.R.S member Kulsum Aboobakker  presented the vote of thanks.

Photo: Muhammed Marakada